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30 Kinky Memes That Will Make You Laugh (And Give You Naughty Ideas)

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Bed activities are often viewed as taboo, but to quote a classic tune, “birds do it, bees do it, even educated fleas do it.”

Not all of us have the same tastes, however. Many enjoy vanilla activities, and, after all, why not? It’s perfectly lovely.

But, for many others, vanilla isn’t enough — in fact, strawberry, chocolate, or some rocky road might be more preferable. This page is for the latter and/or for anyone wanting to learn more about the kinky side.

Lastly, always remember: no means no, and consent must be verbal and unmistakable for anything else!

Basic Kinky Memes

Kinky people are no different than anyone else…

kinky meme with joke about dating apps

Aside from a few… inclinations.

kinky meme with Inspector Gadget

This might be odd at first for newer partners:

kinky meme with zootopia characters
kinky meme with spongebob showing krabs his computer screen
kinky meme with teddy bear

Sometimes, your more vanilla partner(s) might be a bit scared to try something new.

kink meme about hurting someone and liking it
kinky meme with skeletor

Other times, your partner(s) might surprise you by being just as kinky as you:

kinky meme where partner is just as kinky as you
kinky meme with startled monkey

Dominant Kinky Memes

You might find that you and your partner(s) fit into specific roles. You might be the more dominant one, or the one who tends to take control in kinky situations.

Regardless of where you fit in, it’s important to take care of your partner — or provide aftercare — following a scene or kink play.

kinky meme for dom providing aftercare

Being a dom can be empowering, especially when you’re feeling confident in your skills!

kinky meme with anakin

It also allows for a bit of silly creativity…

kinky meme about pandemic
kinky meme about being kinky on a budget

Submissive Kinky Memes

You might, on the other hand, find yourself to be the more submissive partner. This simply means that you typically enjoy enduring the actions of your partner, whatever that might be. This could look like impact play, roleplay, or any number of other options!

It often results in a power dynamic, however…

kinky meme with priest and daddy joke

It might also result in situations where the sub gets to tease the dom into getting what they really want…

kink meme with harley quinn being choked

At the end of it all, however, there are some specific outcomes. Many subs speak of achieving “subspace,” which is a feeling entirely difficult to describe, so I’ll let a meme do it for me:

kinky meme about subspace

Afterward, as mentioned before, aftercare should occur, which is super important if one achieves subspace…

kinky meme about receiving aftercare

Some might find that they fit, firmly, in the sub role and don’t want to dom or switch:

kinky meme about avoiding switching

Kinky Memes for People Who Get It

Certain terms surrounding kink might seem foreign to those who haven’t experienced them but make perfect sense to those who have played around with non-vanilla activities or kink.

Edging is one that more vanilla folks might play with, but being on the receiving end of it can be flustering after a while, to say the least.

kinky meme with gordon ramsay

Impact play involves one partner (or multiple) hitting another partner (or multiple) with an object that could range anywhere from a belt, to a flogger, a whip, or even something more intense.

Sometimes, you might begin not liking it much, but it can grow on you quickly…

kinky meme about impact play

Shibari or ropeplay is another common kink. As someone who has tried to learn more about it, it’s not as easy as it sounds. Regardless, many partners are happy to safely play with rope in general, even if their dom is not well-versed in it!

kinky meme about shibari

This can happen in any kind of scenario, but it’s often a bit frustrating when your partner cleans up before you, or when they do it before administering aftercare:

kinky meme about cleanup

Roleplay is another aspect of kink that can be awkward the first time you try it, or even many times after:

kinky meme about roleplay with llama from emperor's new groove

There are also some standard toy options for kinky activities, really…

kinky meme with home depot aisle 15

As well as some truly silly options…

kinky meme with hamburger gag

Memes about the Weird Quirks of Kink

There are also some truly odd moments within the realm of kink, ranging anywhere from m/f couples looking for a unicorn (or another woman to hook up with the couple, without any strings attached):

kinky meme with jabba the hutt and slave leia

To the wrongly-rooted feelings of shame we sometimes harbor surrounding our kinky feelings and predilections:

kinky meme with black swan whore mirror

To sometimes discovering a new kink entirely unexpectedly!

kinky meme with dice betrayal

Kinky Memes About Consent

I began this post with a comment about consent, and I will happily end the post with a comment about consent.

Sometimes, when playing with kink, scenarios or scenes play out where one or more partners are in a position of power over others — this creates a situation in which the scenario can easily go too far.

This is why it’s important to employ a safe word. For my partners, I like to use a traffic light system: green for “I’m good, keep going,” yellow for “keep going, but please slow down or go a bit easier or stop,” and red for “absolutely stop right now.”

Whatever works for you is great, but, when practicing kink, be cognizant of your partner(s)’ behavior and, when in doubt, play it safe. If they’re screaming “stop,” you should stop unless there’s a prior agreement that that behavior is intentional.

kinky meme about safeword

Lastly, it’s always important to remember the point of the encounter: even if your partner isn’t interested in kink, again, vanilla is still lovely!

Be sure to communicate with your partner(s), try things safely, and do what works best for everyone involved!

kinky meme with blastoise

Have fun out there, and play safely and with full consent!

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