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Top Things To Be Grateful For In 2021

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I’ve tried to make use of the time we have had during the quarantine to start learning new skills. One skill that I have found fascinating to learn about is a skill that you can learn anytime, anywhere, with tremendous potential for self-improvement: I’m talking about gratitude. Simply knowing the things you should be grateful for. It’s true. Gratitude is the easiest skill you can learn.

Research Shows Gratitude Makes You Happier

There’s a substantial amount of research to link gratitude with well-being, higher self-esteem, and happiness.

For example, The Harvard Medical School points to research in the domain of positive psychology (Source) and states:

“In positive psychology research, gratitude is strongly and consistently associated with greater happiness. Gratitude helps people feel more positive emotions, relish good experiences, improve their health, deal with adversity, and build strong relationships.”

Harvard Health Publishing

In the process, I have also learned that writing down a list of things you are grateful for has been proven to make you feel better about your life. And it’s so true! This quote from Bryan Tracy captures this well:

“Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.”

Bryan Tracy

Top Things To Be Grateful For

Here are the top things I am grateful for today. I hope this list helps you reflect on the things you’re grateful for as well.

1. Your Best Friends, Family, and/or Partner

Good relationships are the best predictor for happiness (Source: Stanford). Being surrounded by people who add to your happiness is so important. We often regret not having expressed our gratitude to someone when they leave us. But what about the ones who are present in our lives right now? Be grateful you have people who love you. Be grateful for:

2. Your Health

It was days of ill-health that made me grateful for good health. That’s when I realized how important prioritizing health was. Taking a few moments out every day to be grateful for our health and well-being is essential. It not only helps us appreciate it but also helps us work towards maintaining it. You can be grateful for:

  • You can see: An estimated 1.1 million Americans are legally blind. You might be part of the lucky people who can see without much of a problem.
  • You can hear: If you can hear, be grateful for your ability to have conversations with your loved ones without troubles: one in eight people are hard of hearing, and struggle to understand social conversations. If you have trouble with your hearing, be grateful for the new hearing aids that exist today (now integrated with smartphones).
  • You can taste: There are so many meals to enjoy from all over the world. You can look forward to trying out Japanese, Indian, Chinese, Italian or French food tonight!
  • You can walk: Walking is one of the simplest, least intimidating, and most effective ways to stay active and boost your health. Many people can’t walk or experience pains with movements. If you don’t, feel grateful that you can walk or run.
  • You don’t feel pain: More than 23 millions experience a lot of pain (See NIH analysis). Be grateful if you are part of the lucky ones that can walk, move or carry items without pain.
  • You are healthy: well, many people have a severe condition. Be very grateful if you are generally healthy. If you are not, be grateful for the world-class medical help you can get iin the US, and the medication or devices that can help manage your condition.
  • You can get help with mental health: mental health is a huge challenge for so many people. Today, you can get help from a professional mental health expert and get access to medication that can help a little bit.

3. A Comfortable Home & Access to Clean Water

You have a home: you can feel grateful just for having a comfortable place to live: 1.6 billion people (20% of the world’s population) lack adequate housing, according to study conducted by Habitat in 2015. 

Rio the Janeiro slums, where many don’t have adequate housing

You have access to clean water: According to the CDC, 1.8 billion people (25% of the world’s population) don’t have access to adequate sanitation or clean running water.

4. Your Loving Pet(s)

I have a small dog at home and it makes life so much fun and loving. If you have a pet at home, you are familiar with the unconditional love these creatures provide you. According to Nick Mottet at SeniorTailWaggers, “Research shows that having a dog can lead to lower level of stress for the owner. Older dog owners are also more active with more than 2,000 steps per day extra compared to non dog-owners”. Pets are a great source of personal, social, and emotional well-being and happiness.

Pets can be a great source of comfort and happiness

5. Your Morning Coffee/Tea

morning coffee

You can feel grateful for the little pleasures in life that can bring you instant happiness and comfort. Being a working woman, I probably can’t begin my day without my beverage of choice. Not only does it recharge you for the day, but it’s also the time when you can catch up with the world or your schedule.

6. Your Music or Watchlist

woman in bath listening to music

You can feel grateful for being able to boost your mood a little bit, simply by pressing or saying “Play”. Studies have shown that music can boost your mood and fend off depression. It’s so easy now to start a song or playlist that can instantly boost your mood. You can use apps or devices like Spotify, Alexa, Apple Music or Pandora to discover new music. I personally use Spotify, because it makes it super easy to find new songs that I like. Spotify even auto-creates playlists for you based on what you’ve listened to or liked.

7. Your Favorite TV Shows and Movies

What are the TV shows or movies you have enjoyed the most? I enjoy thinking back about my favorite shows and how they’ve managed to keep me engaged and excited for so long and so many seasons! If you have Netflix, check out these exciting Netflix shows with new seasons coming up soon.

8. Fun Hobbies

Now more than ever with this pandemic, small habits and new hobbies can really make a difference. A study with 1,035 women (Source) showed that leisure activities or hobbies help improve both mental AND physical health. So which new hobby do you want to start? Read my post on the best hobbies for women 🙂

9. Nature

  • Sunshine reduces depression: It is hard to believe that a ball of hot plasma (the sun) is projecting its light and warmth to our planet. Sunshine has a lot of benefits for our bodies, including improving our sleep and reduce depression and is one of the amazing Nature elements that we can be very grateful for.
  • Walking in nature makes you happy: there is a growing body of research that demonstrates the benefits of nature on our hearts and minds. Simply staying in nature helps reduce stress and increase happiness (Source: Yale University).  A new study even points that “Spending at least 2 hours a week in nature is associated with good health and wellbeing”. Walking in nature has many health benefits, and is one of the simplest, and most effective ways to boost your health (read my post on the Amazing Benefits of Walking).
  • National Parks (Or a Hiking Trail Near You!): If you can afford to travel, you should feel grateful for the opportunity to experience the amazing things nature has to offer.

10. Delicious Food. Yum 🙂

We often forget how many people in the world are starving! In this country, we are so lucky to have access to so much great food… even if we abuse it sometimes a little bit 🙂

Be Grateful for Amazing Food

11. Great Books

There are so many different book options to choose from, fiction – non-fiction, travel books, learning a new skill, read a book and then watch the movie…. Really the options are endless. When I’m in search of a new book, I will often ask a friend, check the NY Times best books page or check out the best-selling books on Amazon. You can also read my list of 7 Must-Read Books That Will Change You.

So many great books to read is one of the things to be grateful for

12. Having Money

Many of us are struggling to live paycheck to paycheck, but still manage to save money, or pay for those little pleasures in life that are so important! If you don’t have a lot of money, you can be grateful for the opportunities we have in this country to work hard and earn more money.

13. Learning from Mistakes

That’s right. I am grateful for the mistakes I’ve made. That’s how I have learned and grown. Mistakes are an inevitable part of life. I don’t think I’d be where I am today without making my fair share of mistakes. Do you think you’d have found the love of your life without dating douchebag Charlie in freshman year? Probably not. You do not have to spend your life regretting the mistakes you made when you can learn from them and move on.

14. Looking Forward to a Future Event Makes you Happier. Be Grateful That You Can Plan Something!

Think about how exciting and happy you are when you are looking forward to something (meeting a friend, watching a game, etc). Research published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology has shown that the anticipation and excitement of looking forward to something helps us live happier (Source). 

15. You Can Treat Yourself anytime.

two friends having fun

Plan for special treats that you will look forward to: taking a bath with music and bubbles, enjoying a delicious special treat with a friend, or curling up in your favorite spot with a new book. 

Other Things To be Thankful or Grateful For

Laughter

Laughter is the best medicine. The Mayo Clinic states that “When it comes to relieving stress, more giggles and guffaws are just what the doctor ordered”. Laughing doesn’t just improve your mood, it also changes your body physically: laughter can relieve stress, increase satisfaction and even improve your immune system (Source: Mayo Clinic). You can be grateful these days that you can just call a friend or find your favorite comedians in a click on YouTube or Netflix.

Freedom of Religion

For the most part, in the United States, we are free to exercise the religion that is dear to our hearts. This is a very important freedom, but not a freedom that applies to all religions worldwide. Wikipedia maintains a list of current and historical religious persecutions that is worth reading.

The Comfort Of Air Conditioning & Heating

Do you remember the last time you were TOO HOT or perhaps too cold? It was super uncomfortable, wasn’t it?? Be grateful for the super-comfortable heating and air conditioning sysems that can power our homes.

Days Off and Week-Ends.

plan a week-end or summer trip

You can be grateful that you can plan amazing things on your days off, such as: 1) getting outside: being active is fantastic for your health and happiness (See our article), 2) recharge: each of us has specific ways to take “me-time” annd recharge. Think about how you can make that special and fun for you, 3) Eat well: what’s the yummy food or drinks you can have today??, or 4) Plan for a special treat: Make your day off feel exciting by taking a bath, enjoying a delicious special treat, or curling up with a new book. 

Life as we know it

I don’t think people acknowledge how beautiful and rewarding life can be. Probably because none of us have experienced the other side, that is, death. We are constantly complaining about the small and big things in life.

Didn’t get that promotion? Got your period on the wrong date? The dress on sale didn’t fit? All of these worries are fleeting, and you know it. As long as you’re alive, there will be ebbs and flows. Ride the waves with gratitude, and you’ll find dealing with downfalls much easier.

Intimate Relationships

Couple together in bed

Intimate relationships not only feel good. They can also be good for you. Surprising health benefits of sexual relationships include an improved immune system, improved physical activity and lower risks of heart attacks (Source: WebMD).

Being able to create art

Fun hobbies bring happiness. Anyone can enjoy simple art such as sketching or coloring The options are endless and great fun at the same time. Read our article on the best creative hobbies for women.

Learn Without Limits… For Free

Over the past decade, new options have popped up to learn pretty much anything you want… for free. coursera.org offers more than 5,000 online courses from some of the top universities in the world. In their recent student survey, they reported that “87% of people learning for professional development report career benefits like getting a promotion, a raise, or starting a new career”.

You Can Get a Promotion, a Raise or Start A New Career

woman in business suit

A few of the women I’ve known that have been able to increase their incomes were very proactive in several ways: they were gently (but firmly) asking for a raise, very pro-active in discussing career progression with their friends and managers, and did not hesitate to get an extra degree or certificate when it was helpful or required. You can be grateful for having the opportunity to learn, get better and progress in your career.

Safety

Safety is one of these things that you should definitely feel grateful for. According to The Telegraph, 1 in 7 persons live in “fragile or conflict-affected countries”. For example, the Boko Haram insurgency affected many countries, including Nigeria, Cameroon, and Niger, with 52,000 casualties so far according to Wikipedia’s List of Armed Conflicts. In contrast, we are lucky live in a very safe country and should feel grateful for that.

Militia men fighting against Boko Haram

Breathing fresh air

People living in highly polluted cities in China or India sometimes had to wear masks outside because of the pollution – and this was before COVID! The World Health Organization (WHO) estimates that 7 million people a year die because of air pollution wordlwide, with 9 of 10 people breathing air that does not meet the WHO’s guidelines for air pollutants. We can be grateful that America doesn’t account for a single of the top 50 most polluted cities in the world.

The Surprising Benefits of Writing Down The “Things You Are Grateful For”

oh the wonderful benefits of writing things down! Most people hate doing it, but … it works. It turns out that writing down a list of things you are grateful for makes you feel better about your live: a research project by the University of California showed that people who keep gratitude journals and wrote down a list of things they were grateful for, reports feeling better about their lives and more optimistic about the future. These people were also more likely to have made progress towards important personal goals (Source):

“In an experimental comparison, those who kept gratitude journals on a weekly basis exercised more regularly, (…) felt better about their lives as a whole, and were more optimistic about the upcoming week”
Robert Emmons, Ph.D., Director, University of California

So I simply keep a little notepad where I write down anything from blog ideas, personal thoughts, fitness goals as well as things that I’m grateful for. I know it can feel awkward to write things down but you should probably give it a try!

Gratitude is an Important Skill to Learn

You might think that gratitude is inherent or obvious then why should one have to learn it? On the contrary, psychologists have found that the human mind naturally overemphasizes the negative.  Gratitude takes practice, effort, and habit formation. But the good thing is you can get started anytime. Being grateful for big and small things, finding the silver lining in difficult situations can help you tide over stressful times with a smile.  

“Gratitude is one of the sweet shortcuts to finding peace of mind and happiness inside. No matter what is going on outside of us, there is always something we could be grateful for.”

 – Barry Neil Kaufman

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