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The #1 Way to NOT Stress About Money


The #1 Way to NOT Stress About Money | Best Budgeting Tips | Personal Finance | Savings | Emergency Fund | Budget | Pin now and save for when you need it!My biggest motivation for staying in control of our money and keeping a tight budget is so that we don’t stress about money.

Almost three-quarters of adults say that they’ve stressed about money at some point in the last month (source). That’s significant! Money concerns are always on the lists of what adults worry about most as well as being a top reason for divorce.

You know I’m all about keeping a fully-funded emergency fund, which takes a ton of stress off of us. The other thing that keeps me from stressing about money is being a month ahead on our budget.

Get a Month Ahead on Your Budget

One of the biggest reasons to get a month ahead on your budget is so that you have all of the money you need for bills and expenses on the first of the month.

When we get our bills throughout the month, I can pay them right away. I don’t need to wait for the next paycheck to come because I already have all of the money I need for the month. This takes a lot of stress and worry off of my shoulders.

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The Logistics

So here’s how it works for us: Throughout the month of September, every paycheck we get will get deposited into our savings account so that it’s out of the way. Most of it is done automatically, but if we get a physical check for something, that’s where I’ll deposit the money.

About two days before the end of the month, I’ll create our budget spreadsheet for October (check out my budget spreadsheet and how I track our spending here). I’ll be able to see exactly how much money we made in September and I’ll decide where all of the money should go.

I’ll transfer most of it into our checking account so that I’ve got all of my money ready that I need for our budget for October. If we made any extra money (above what we need for our basic budget), we’ll decide what to do with that money and transfer it into separate savings accounts, retirement accounts, or agree on how we want to spend it.

It may take a few months to get your savings up high enough to do this. If you don’t have any extra savings, you’ll need to start by saving every bit you can each month in a savings account until you have enough money for the whole month saved up. It took us a while to get to this point, but has been totally worth it.

If you already have some money in savings, you could start doing this on the first of the month. Just transfer what you need for the month into your checking account and the put all of the money you make during the month into your savings to be used next month.

Emergency Preparedness

One of the great things about being a month ahead on your budget is that you technically have a built-in one month emergency fund.

If you were to lose your job, you at least have enough money for the next month. If you don’t have any kind of savings at all, this is a great start!

We keep an emergency fund of at least six month’s worth of expenses at a separate bank that we try to never touch. I basically just ignore that the money even exists. 🙂

Mentally, I don’t consider being a month ahead on our budget as part of our emergency fund. It’s just how our budget works. But if it came down to it, we’d have an extra month of money.

⇒ Have you ever tried to get a month ahead on your budget? Do you worry about having the money when you need it to pay the bills?

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Financial Coach Brad

Wednesday 28th of September 2016

Far too many people live month to month with their paychecks - getting a month ahead is a key step in avoiding that small slip that can push people into debt.


Wednesday 28th of September 2016


Julie Cao

Tuesday 27th of September 2016

To save the money a month ahead is a very good logic. And so much like you, I also have emergency fund saved for at least one year without employment in North America countries. I just left them in the bank to accumulate the interest, and meanwhile just pretend that money does not exist. Thank you for the money-saving and planning strategies. I believe they will save your life during the emergency situations.


Tuesday 27th of September 2016

Sounds like you're doing great Julie! Thanks so much for commenting!

Kandja Sylla

Sunday 25th of September 2016

This is a great post! Money is usually the reason why we are stressed. The tips are really helpful and honestly easier than I expected. Thanks for the share. xx


Monday 26th of September 2016

Thanks Kandja! I hope it helps!