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200+ Questions to Ask your Girlfriend (From Cute to Naughty)

Sometimes it can be difficult to start a conversation. You might overthink yourself – how do I begin? Do my eyebrows look weird when I talk? Am I interesting to listen to? Don’t worry. We’ve got you covered with a number of different questions that can spark interesting, fun or sexy conversations.

Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend on a Date

couple on a date on a boat

This first set of questions is meant to help you make the most out of a first date. These are light and fun, and hopefully will help you to get to know the person you’re talking with.

  • Where’s your favorite spot in your hometown?
  • Who was your favorite teacher?
  • What musician do you listen to most often?
  • What is the most recent television series you have binge-watched?
  • What television series do you return to most often?
  • What is a TV show you’ve every single episode of?
  • What was the best summer you ever had?
  • What is your favorite quote?
perfect week-end question
  • What is the most embarrassing fad you ever took part in? (music fad, fashion fad, etc.)
  • What is a country you are most excited to visit?
  • What is a country you would never want to visit?
  • What’s the most amount of money you’ve ever spent on a single item?
  • What is a flavor of potato chips that should exist but doesn’t?
  • Who is your favorite actress and actor?
  • If you got to meet your favorite celebrity what would you say to them?
  • What is the most random fun fact you know?
  • What is your favorite knock-knock joke?
  • Have you ever walked out of a movie at the movie theater? Why?
  • Do you prefer to spend more money on experiences (vacations) or objects (purses)?
  • What is your favorite music to dance to?
  • What is your least favorite movie genre?
what countries have you traveled to
  • Do you prefer hot summer days, or cold winter evenings?
  • What is your best “party trick”?
  • What is your most “useless” talent?
  • What topic have you read the most books about?
  • Do you listen to podcasts? What are your top 3 favorite podcasts?
  • What is more important: friendships or romantic relationships?
  • How many friends would you say you have?
  • What is your favorite holiday? Why? What about your least favorite?
  • Have you ever stuck with a New Year’s resolution?
  • What was the busiest time of your life?
  • Have you ever had any weird jobs? or bosses?
  • What is your least favorite genre of books?

Questions to Understand Your Girlfriend Better

man getting to know his girlfriend

Hooray! The questions asked at your first date led to a second and then a third, and now you’re in a full blown relationship! But you’ve got to keep the conversation going. Here are a few questions to ask someone you’re already in a relationship with.What was the first thing you noticed about me when we met?

  • Do you have a “type”? Am I it? Or am I different?
  • What’s most important to you in life? What makes you the happiest?
  • What’s the one thing you would want to change about me?
  • Do you think that opposites really do attract? Or do you disagree?
  • How long did it take for you to realize you had feelings for me?
  • Which of my friends is your favorite?
  • What is the biggest personal accomplishment in your life?
  • If we had multiple kids, would you want all boys or all girls? Or a mix?
  • Who was your celebrity crush when you were a teenager?
  • Where would you love to see yourself in 5 years?
  • What kind of job do you want to do in the future?
  • What’s a perfect retirement for you?
what is the hardest you have ever laughed?
  • If we had a couple’s name, like Bennifer, what would our’s be?
  • What is the biggest thing you miss about being single?
  • What is the best thing about having a boyfriend?
  • What is the most embarrassing thing you have ever witnessed?
  • What do you remember most about the first time we “got intimate”?
  • Do you think you trust more people or more people trust you?
  • Do you consider yourself a good secret keeper?
  • If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
  • If you could change one thing about me, what would it be?
  • What is the biggest success of your life?
  • What was the biggest failure in your life?
  • Do you think a younger version of yourself would be proud of your current self?
  • What is the best vacation you have ever had?
  • What are some nicknames you’ve been given in your life?
  • Who is your favorite relative?
  • What would be the perfect life for you in a few years?
interesting question about relaxing after work
  • Who is the biggest role model in your life?
  • What was your favorite snack to eat after school when you were a kid?
  • What is the best birthday gift you have ever received?
  • What is the best birthday gift you have ever given?
  • What was your favorite book series to read as a kid?
  • What’s a fun “inside joke” you have with your friends?
  • What is the most relaxing place in your home?
  • What did your childhood bedroom look like?
  • If you could relive one day of your life over again, what day would it be?
  • Do you typically like my outfits? Or could I improve?
  • What’s an adventure you’ve always wanted to go on with me?
  • What is the biggest “red flag” in a relationship?
  • How do you know when a relationship is going to last?
  • Do you feel safe with me? Comfortable?
  • Is cheating a deal breaker, or can couples work through it?
  • Do you feel heard in our relationship?
  • When you are upset what makes you feel better?
  • How many people have you said “I Love You” to in your life?

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Fun & Funny Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

couple laughing together and having a good time

A lot of times the mood is fun and you want to have a good time with your girlfriend. Here are a few questions that’ll no doubt start a fun conversation with lots of laughter.

  • Do you think you could eat more tacos or slices of pizza in one sitting?
  • Would you rather walk on the moon or the bottom of the ocean?
  • Would you spend one night in a haunted house for $1,000,000?
  • If you had one superpower, what would it be?
  • Which scary monsters (ghosts, vampires, werewolves, etc.) do you think are real?
  • If you had the traits of one animal, but stayed in your human body, for one day. What animal would you choose?
  • If you found $100,000 in a bag at a bus stop, what would you do?
  • What kid’s game should grownups still play from time to time?
  • How many ducks would it take to defeat a T-Rex?
  • What would be the absolute worst name for a new brand of Peanut Butter?
fun question about zombies
  • If countries couldn’t fight wars with any weapons, what would be a good alternative?
  • If humans could have updates like iPhones, what would the Human12 be like?
  • What game show do you think you’d be the best at?
  • If you went on a 7 day vacation, how many pairs of socks would you bring?
  • What is the creepiest thing you have ever seen with your own eyes?
  • What do you think is the weirdest job in the world?
  • Who do you think you have sent the most texts to in your life?
  • Who do you think you have talked on the phone with the most times?
  • If you could only watch movies/TV, listen to music, or read books for the rest of your life, which one would you choose? 
  • If you had to wear a clown wig, clown nose, or clown shoes for an entire day, which would you choose?
  • What is something you already forgot you did today until I asked you this question?
  • Which would you prefer as a roommate- a ninja, a pirate, or a zombie?
  • If you had to get in a boxing ring, who would be an opponent you could actually beat?
  • If you were in a band, what would the name of the band be?
  • What would be the worst food to sneak into the movie theater?

Naughty & Dirty Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

woman licking her lips suggestively

Let’s say you’ve been chatting into the early hours of the morning, having deep philosophical conversations- when suddenly, the mood changes. You suddenly want to shift the topics to something spicier. What are some good questions to ask to get your partner on the same wavelength as you? 

  • Do you brag to your friends about the dirty things we do together?
  • What is your favorite position?
  • Have you ever been in public completely naked?
  • Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
  • Have you ever sent someone nudes?
  • What is your favorite type of foreplay?
  • What is the wildest thing you’ve ever done in the bedroom?
  • What outfit makes you feel the most attractive?
question about turnons
  • What do you think about when you “play with yourself”?
  • What is the sexiest scene from a movie you’ve ever watched?
  • Where is your favorite spot to be kissed?
  • What is your naughtiest fantasy you’ve never tried before?
  • Have you ever kissed another woman?
  • What is your favorite part of my body?
  • What is your favorite toy?
  • Want to play with ourselves in front of each other?
  • Do you watch adult videos? Do you have a favorite one?
  • Do you think about our “intimate times” when you’re at work? 
  • What’s the best time of day to do it?
question about food in the bedroom
  • Have you ever been “caught” doing it before?
  • What could I text you that would instantly turn you on?
  • Do you want to make our own “adult video”?
  • Do you have a favorite “adult film” star?
  • Do you like it when I pull your hair?
  • Do you like it when I whisper in your ear?
  • Do you like it when I lightly or roughly kiss your neck?
  • How long was your longest “solo session”?
  • When you are “by yourself” do you prefer the bedroom or bathroom?
  • Do you like to get busy with the lights off or on?
  • Which do you prefer- shower sex or car sex?
  • Would you like to experiment with food in the bedroom?
  • Have you ever wanted to wear a costume during sex?
question about blindfold
  • Can we sext while you’re at work?
  • Would you ever want to join the mile high club?
  • Have you ever had naughty “phone talk”?
  • Would you be interested in experimenting with blindfolds?
  • What happened during your “sexual awakening”?
  • What is your favorite pair of underwear?
  • Have you ever had a “one night stand”?
  • Do you consider yourself a good girl or a bad girl?
  • Do you prefer to give or receive?
  • How many partners have you had?
  • Have you ever been intimate with someone you worked with?
  • Have you ever had a conversation about the “birds and the bees”?
  • Have you ever accidentally yelled someone else’s name while getting busy?
  • What is the biggest non-sexual thing that still turns you on?

Deep Conversation Starters

woman thinking about a question

Sometimes you and your partner want to talk all night sipping on tea and lounging on the couch. But what do you keep those talk-all-night conversations going? You ask deep questions! Questions that make you scratch your chin and go “Hmmm. I’ve never thought of that before”. (Ambien)

  • What do you think happens after we die?
  • Do you think that life exists on other planets?
  • What do you want to be remembered for?
  • Have you ever had a paranormal experience?
  • Do you believe God exists? How does that affect you in your daily life?
  • What is your favorite piece of art?
  • What is the biggest “superstition” you actually believe is true?
  • Do you know how to meditate? Have you ever wanted to learn?
  • If you could talk to your 5, 15, & 25 year old self- what would you say?
  • Do you think dreams affect our waking lives?
  • Do you think time travel is possible? Why or why not?
  • Where is the most mysterious place on Earth?
  • Are human beings inherently selfish creatures?
  • If you could change one current law, what would it be?
  • If you could create one new law, what would it be?
  • Which US president has had the most impact on the world?
  • Will human beings ever go extinct?
  • How would you commit the perfect crime?
  • How do you think you will die?
  • What is your biggest fear?
  • Do animals experience emotions like humans do?
  • How many photos do you think there are of you? 
  • What celebrity death impacted you the most?
  • In 50 years for now, what will people be nostalgic for?
  • What is a conspiracy theory you actually think is true?
  • If your autobiography was only one sentence, what would it be?
  • What actor/actress would play you in the movie version of your life?
  • What is the most important social issue in the world right now?
  • Do you think people can change?
  • What existed before the universe began?
  • Would you consider yourself to be a moral or ethical person?
  • Do you judge people immediately when you meet them? For what?
  • What will future generations look back on and judge this generation for?
200+ Questions to Ask your Girlfriend (From Cute to Naughty)

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